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Communication & Messages

Getting in touch with other Kinksters

  • Viewing Messages

    ▪ Tap *Chat* on the navigation bar  . Tap the *three-dot menu* to choose message *options* (e.g. hide, delete, report, block user)...

  • Message Filters

    Control who can message you.   Filter by: ▪ Gender ▪ Age ▪ Location ▪ Relationship status ▪ Minimum message length **Two ways**: ▪ Tap *Chat* → Tap three lines (top right) → *Who can message me?* ▪ Ta...

  • Join Live Chat Rooms

    ▪ Tap *Chat* on the navigation bar  ▪ Tap *Chat Rooms* at the top of the screen  When connected, select the default room *Lobby*. Once in the chat, type and send messages by clicking 'send' or just hi...

  • Private Conversations in Live Chat

    ▪ Long-press profile picture ▪ Select *Whisper* **Alternative**: Open profile, send private message...

  • Icebreaker Messages

    All first contact messages you send to someone you have not already talked to via direct messages. You can use the pre-written messages as a quick and easy way to get a kinkster's attention. **Limits*...

  • Voice Messages

    ▪ Tap *Chat* on the navigation bar ▪ Open conversation ▪ Tap microphone icon ▪ Hold to record ▪ Release when done **Message Recall**: ▪ Delete within 5 minutes ▪ Long-press message ▪ Select *Recall*...

  • Message Symbols

    ▪ ✓: Message sent ▪ ✓✓: Message read ▪ Trash bin: Message deleted ▪ Crossed-out eye: Message hidden ▪ Crown: VIP membership...

  • Unwanted Messages

    This is quick and easy to do. You will find three dots at the top right of the screen next to the relevant message. If you tap on them, you can select *Block/remove user*.  A user that you have blocke...

  • Sending Messages

    ▪ Open Kinkster profile ▪ Tap speech bubble below profile picture ▪ Find all messages in *Chat* section...