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Community & Connect

Understanding your Community and ways to connect

  • The 'Live' Tag

    Profiles with a *Live tag* in the top-left corner indicate that the member has shared their GPS location and can currently be found at that location. The 'Live' tag is visible for up to 24 hours after...

  • See Profile Visits

    ▪ Tap *Connect* on the navigation bar With a free basic membership you can view the last five visitors within the previous 24 hours, with an upgrade, you can see everyone who has visited your profile ...

  • Give Spanks

    A fun way of connecting with new people. **Two ways** to ‘spank’ someone: ▪ In an opened profile tap the *Spank* icon (lifted hand) ▪ Tap *Search* in the navigation bar and select *Spanks* Tap the thr...

  • See Spanks

    ▪ Tap *Connect* on the navigation bar ▪ Tap *Crushes* on the top . You'll see all kinksters who have given you a 'spank' to get your attention....

  • Adding Friends and Favorites

    ▪ Open user's profile ▪ Tap 👤⁺ icon under username ▪ Choose to add as *friend* or as *favorite*...

  • See Likes

    ▪ Tap *Connect* on the navigation bar  ▪ Tap *Likes* to see who has liked your pics ...

  • BDSM Compatibility Test

    Understanding yourself is essential when venturing into the world of kink, especially if you're new to the scene. So, before diving in head-first all whips, ropes, and chains, it's worth figuring out ...

  • Newsfeed

    When you open FET, you will go directly to the newsfeed (*Home*) to view all the kinky stuff around you.  . **Filter options**: Type of newsfeed, gender, age, city, radius, or relationship status To c...

  • BDSM Compatibility Test - View Matches

    Once you've completed the test, you'll then be taken to an area where you'll see those kinksters who match with you.  It's then up to you to make the first move!  ...

  • Filter Profile Visitors

    Unfortunately, you cannot filter who can visit your profile. But you can filter who can send you a message and who can give you a 'spank'. ...