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  • How do I start the BDSM Compatibility Test and view my matches?

    Once you've completed the test, you'll then be taken to an area where you'll see those kinksters who match with you. It's then up to you to make the first move!  ...

  • What is the BDSM Compatibility Test?

    Understanding yourself is essential when venturing into the world of kink, especially if you're new to the scene. So, before diving in head-first all whips, ropes, and chains, it's worth figuring out ...

  • How can I view who has given me ‘likes’?

    Select the *Connect* icon from the main menu at the bottom of the screen, and from the top, select *Likes* to see who has liked your pics. ...

  • How can I add others as a friend or favorite?

    Go to the profile you want to add, tap *Save* from the icons displayed, and you'll be given the option to select *friend* or *favorite.*...

  • What are 'Spanks'?

    Giving someone a spank offers a fun way of connecting with new people. It’s simple and easy to use, and there are two ways to 'spank' someone. 1. When you hit on a profile that interests you, tap the ...

  • How can I see who has ‘spanked’ me?

    To find out who has 'spanked' you, select the *Connect* icon from the main menu at the bottom of the screen, then tap *Crushes*, and you'll see all the kinksters who have given you a 'spank' to get yo...

  • What is the ‘Invisible’ feature?

    The invisible feature lets you go undercover and not leave any tracks on another kinkster’s profile.  However, this is only available to those with an upgrade. To visit someone's profile without them ...