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FAQs on messages and Live Chat

  • How do I view my messages?

    Get to your messages simply by tapping on the 'messages' icon in the main menu at the bottom of the screen. When you’ve read your message, you can mark the message as unread, or hide it. To do this on...

  • Can I filter the messages I receive?

    Yes! We make it easy for kinksters to control who can contact them. For example, you might want to only receive messages from certain genders or a particular age range. You can set your message filter...

  • How do I join the Live Chat?

    First, we recommend you read the Community Guidelines (accessed via 'settings', then select 'About FET'), which outlines the do's and don'ts of the Live Chat - and to avoid receiving any warnings for ...

  • How to start a private convo in the Chat

    To start a private convo with someone you met in the Live Chat, press and hold down on the profile picture of the person you want to chat with, and from the pop-up menu, select 'Whisper'.  You can als...