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FAQs on messages and Live Chat

  • How do I view my messages?

    Get to your messages simply by tapping on the *Messages* icon in the main menu at the bottom of the screen. When you’ve read your message, you can mark the message as unread, or hide it. To do this on...

  • Can I filter the messages I receive?

    Yes! We make it easy for kinksters to control who can contact them. You can set your message filter to only receive messages from kinksters with a profile picture, a certain character length, or from ...

  • How do I join the Live Chat?

    First, we recommend you read the Code of Conduct (accessed via *Settings*, then select *About FET*), which outlines the do's and don'ts of the Live Chat to avoid receiving any warnings for not followi...

  • How to start a private convo in the Chat

    To start a private convo with someone you met in the Live Chat, press and hold down on the profile picture of the person you want to chat to. From the pop-up menu, select *Whisper.* You can also brief...