What are 'limits'?

Discovering what your BDSM limits are is an essential part of being in the kink scene. While it's common for people to enter the kink scene and claim they have no limits, the reality is, if you don't tell your partner/s or potential partner/s what your limits are, they’ll be left guessing. 

So, how do you know what your hard limits and kinks are? You could start by having a fantasy-based thought exercise. Think about the things you do want to do, and then notice where those interactions end; for example, perhaps you want to get caned or whipped, but not to the point of breaking the skin. This feature allows you to clearly communicate your limits so you can play safely.