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FAQs on profile admin, privacy & upgrades

  • Why can I only change my birth date once?

    Mistakes happen! In case you entered the incorrect date of birth when signing up, we want you to be able to change it. You're only allowed to change your date of birth once to discourage spammers and ...

  • Can I change my gender?

    Yes, you can change your gender if, for example, you're transitioning or you chose the wrong one in the sign-up process. You can do this by selecting the *Me* icon from the main menu at the bottom of ...

  • Where can I find my blocked list?

    Select the *Me* icon from the main menu at the bottom of your screen, then select *Settings.* From here, tap *Blocked Kinksters*, and a list will appear with all the kinksters you've blocked....

  • How do I delete a status update?

    Once you have created a status update, it appears in the newsfeed and on your profile. To remove it, tap *Me* and then your profile pic to open your profile. Scroll down to your *Wall* below *Personal...

  • How do I change my push notifications?

    Select the *Me* icon from the main menu at the bottom of your screen, then *Settings.* Tap on *Push notifications*, and from here, you can customize what notifications are pushed to your device and wh...

  • How do I see who has visited my profile?

    Select the *Connect* icon from the main menu at the bottom of your screen. With an upgrade, you can see everyone who has visited your profile without restriction. Free users can view the last five vis...

  • What does 'kinky confessions' mean on my profile page?

    The *Kinky Confessions* feature is a list of questions to answer that provides a platform for you to tell others more about you, your kinks, and what makes you tick. You don't have to answer every que...

  • What are 'limits'?

    Discovering what your BDSM limits are is an essential part of being in the kink scene. While it's common for people to enter the kink scene and claim they have no limits, the reality is, if you don't ...

  • Can you filter your profile visitors?

    Unfortunately, you cannot filter who can visit your profile, but you can filter who can send you a message and who can give you a 'spank'. ...

  • How do I add roles to my profile?

    To add roles to your profile, open the *Me* icon at the bottom of your screen and select *Edit profile*. Scroll down and open *My BDSM Roles*, where you will be able to add the roles that apply to you...